sunrise-in-montanaI am not an introvert, but I do like my alone time. I like to have time without noise or distractions where I can think and just do what I want without interruption. The only time I have available is before everyone else gets up in the morning. I have tried staying up late, but teenagers can always outlast me.

Yesterday, I had a lot of things I wanted to get done. I drew up a list Friday night. I found this works better for me since I usually forget by Saturday morning and then waste an hour or two trying to figure out what needs to be done. In keeping with my post from last week, I tried to keep it to only those tasks that must be done. Still, that quickly extended into a list of a dozen things. From past experience, I knew I was in trouble. I usually can’t get that many things accomplished in a day.

When we were going to bed Friday, my wife asked when I was going to get up. I replied 6:00 to which she laughed. Six o’clock on a Saturday? That helped stiffen my resolve and I made it up by 6:30. That little goading by her probably saved my Saturday. Without the dig, I probably would have been happy to sleep in and give up on my ambitions. Instead, by the time the family was up, I had already completed my weekly review and had taken the car in for an oil change and tire rotation. Two things checked off before 9:00!

The rest of the day went very well and I was able to cross everything off my list except one – this post. By the time I got to it, my brain was too tired and my body too sore to want to tackle it. I felt good about putting it off until today.

Getting up early really helped me focus and get moving before the distractions began. But I can’t do it day after day unless I get to bed earlier. I have two teenagers that thrive on staying up late. That part has to change for me. I have to find ways to go to bed, even when the family does not.

I used to scoff at the people who said they loved getting up in the mornings. I thought it too difficult. I am a night person and prefer staying up late. That part still hasn’t changed, but I do agree with the early risers now. The morning is the best part of the day for getting things done.

 

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Most Saturdays, I make a list of all the things I need to do that day. This approach is a great one for focusing the effort and getting a lot of things knocked out. However, I seem to take it to far. I make a list that is more ambitious, too loaded for any human being short of Superman to accomplish before night.

And then I beat myself up about how many things didn’t get done.

No matter how much I accomplish, I can’t let myself be happy with that. I only focus on the remaining tasks. It drives my wife nuts. I have checked off a dozen things, only to moan about the 3 things left.

Yesterday, I did something different. I listed only the things that absolutely had to be done. The list was short, about six items long. And I accomplished every one of them before noon. Amazing! I felt wonderful. I played the rest of the day. I didn’t feel guilty about it, either. I was busy. I didn’t waste time, I just did other things. Were there still things left that need to be done someday? Yup. Lots of them. The key word is ‘someday’.

Since I am a perfectionist and unrelenting in my critique of myself, I think I need to either lighten up or shorten the focus. I have tried to lighten up on myself in the past. That is a hard thing to do. I think it may take years of therapy at this point. I may be better off just setting shorter and more realistic goals. I get more done that way.

Breaking things into small chunks has long been advocated as away to swallow the whale. The same goes for task lists. Don’t over crowd the day. Pick the small list and check them off quickly. Reload the list when it is done if desired, or just get a pat on the back and go play. It was nice to do that yesterday.

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