Write It Down, Make It Happen: Knowing What You Want And Getting It by Henriette Anne Klauser 

Several yard ago, I saw this book recommended in Making a Living Without a Job: Winning Ways for Creating Work That You Love by Barbara Winter. It sat on my list of books to buy for over five years. This Christmas, I was reviewing my list, trying to decide which book would be my “Christmas book”. Every year, we have a tradition where everyone gets a book to read. I finally moved it off the list of Someday to Today. The ironic thing is, once I started reading, I realized I must have checked it out from the library years ago, because I had already read it.

Still, it was a good refresher course. Some books need more than one reading and this is one of them. Klauser has made a study on how people get what they want. She postulates that the easiest way to accomplish something is to write it down somewhere, anywhere. The subconscious then takes over and works out a way to make it happen.

The book is filled with many examples of people receiving exactly what they desired. She isn’t suggesting that it doesn’t take work along with writing it down, but the chances of success are increased dramatically. There is something about the act of writing that helps clarify and bring the desire into focus. Then, once focus is achieved, things begin lining up to deliver the goal.

The skeptical side of me doesn’t want to believe it actually is that easy. The dreamer side of me says try it. I took one of my extra moleskine notebooks and started writing. I put down all sorts of wild desires. Some are concrete, like “I want to play French horn in a symphony.” Others are vague, such as “I want to do things and not second guess myself.” I decided to record the date I wrote the desire, just in case I want to go back and see when I wrote it down. I only have four pages filled so far, but it is enjoyable to go back and read them already, just a month later.

In a second section of the book, I decided to write down when one of those dreams are fulfilled. One dream I wrote down in early January was that I wanted to be a people manager again, leading a team to be the best they can be. That dream was fulfilled February 11, 2012, when I was promoted to Core Services Application Manager at work. That position didn’t exist when I wrote down the goal. About a week after I wrote it down, my director asked me how I would set up support of the application we are installing. A month later he created the position and I was hired. One dream down…

I have become a big fan of writing dreams and desires. I believe there is something about the act of taking a pen and paper, organizing thoughts and committing them in written words. It helps refine the focus and allow the subconscious to begging working on the way to make it happen.

This book inspired me to start writing down what I want. It also spurred me to changing the way I choose and write goals. I have already seen the effects of making goals that are geared toward achieving the desires I have recorded in my little book. I truly believe I can make some of those dreams come true through the employment of targeted goals. Others may happen by small miracles. I look forward o recording the fruition in the second half of the book. I eagerly await those entries.

 

Ron Knudsen and "the horn"

When I was fourteen, I started playing the French horn. Due to the expense, I borrowed a Holton Farkus horn from the school. I was able to convince the school district to transfer it to the high school with me. I was not able to convince them to move it to the university, but was lucky enough to find an identical one in their stock and I played that one through graduation five years later. When I moved to another city, the local high school let me play one of their Holtons in the community symphony for a couple years. However, once my daughter was born, my time became more limited and I ended up dropping out the symphony and lost my access to a French horn for the first time in over a decade.

Last year, as we were sitting at our first Timpanogos Symphony concert, my wife leaned over in the middle and suggested we find a way to buy me a horn. I think she was tired of me getting emotional every time we went to a musical concert. After searching for several months, I finally found the horn I wanted, a Holton 77 owned by a retired music teacher. He said he had played it for over 40 years. It was hard to buy it from him as it was a member of his family. He wasn’t sure he wanted to let it go, but in the end, he did, although he required pictures of me holding it before I left.

After getting it cleaned up (the repairman commented  on how good of shape it was in), I have been practicing, trying to get my lip back in shape. I have a goal to audition for the Timpanogos Symphony just as soon as I can handle it. I don’t expect to ever be back in top form, like when I went to Europe with America’s Youth In Concert, but I am already having a wonderful time. I have noticed a marked improvement.

There are lots of morals to this story. I think the one I have struggled with most is allowing myself to spend money on my dreams. Making music is part of who I am and playing horn has brought me some of the most wonderful experiences in my life. I love to perform and play and I have been denying that part of me for a very long time. I can’t thank my wife enough for pushing me to do this. I resisted for many years because of the cost – there was always something more important that needed the money. I appreciate her recognizing I needed to make music. I used to hate practicing. Now I sit and play until my lip gives out, although my family may be getting tired of the endless scales.

Next Friday I am attending my first concert since buying the horn and starting to play. I am eager to see if I still get all choked up or if I have finally found a release. I will make it into the symphony again someday. Once I achieve that goal, there is one more I have had since high school. I want to solo with the symphony. It is safely written down in my dream book. But one goal at a time.

 

Last year, I had grandiose goals, intended to take an entire year to achieve. I worked at them and throughout the year, I kept checking back to see how I was doing. It was a good year and I accomplished more than I anticipated. Still, I felt like I had not achieved enough. This was weighing heavily on my mind while I was contemplating what goals I should choose for this year.

One of the challenges I faced with last year’s goals was waning interest in some areas I had focused on in January. Those goals didn’t get accomplished, mainly due to the internal resistance that built up over time. I had good intentions in January, but my desires had changed dramatically by midyear.

After long thought, I am taking a different approach to goals this year. I have a few long range goals, so long range they can’t be tied to a single year. Instead, I am choosing smaller monthly goals that are steps to achieving the long range life changes. Each month I will make new goals and create daily tasks designed to keep me focused and moving toward achievement. Once I complete it, I’ll make another that moves me toward the long range goals.

As I read my Christmas book, Write It Down, Make It Happen: Knowing What You Want And Getting It by Henriette Anne Klauser, I started wondering what I was capable of accomplishing. I did as she recommends and started a small journal of all the hopes and desires I have. They range from the well defined to the completely vague. It is from these, I choose my monthly direction.

One dream I have repressed for many decades is the desire to perform a French horn solo with a symphony. So, I wrote that down in my little book. One step is to get back into a symphony again. I wrote that down, too. As I was working through the exercise of choosing this month’s goals, I asked what I could do this month to move me toward those goals. The answer was easy. I needed to get my “new” horn reconditioned and practice 20 minutes every day. That is the goal I made for February. It is smaller and easier to achieve than “solo with a symphony”.

That is the process I went through to make my monthly goals. I looked through my life goals and asked myself what I wanted to do this month to move me toward it. Some things didn’t interest me this month. Others made sense. Here is the list I developed for February:

Financial

  • Create a list of savings goals for 2012-2015.
  • Create a report system for my financial goals.
  • Create detailed specifications for the iPad applications my wife wants developed.

Mental

  • Decide on topic I want to study this year.
  • Finish reading four books.

Physical

  • Perform 15 sessions of sit-ups and pushups.
  • Go running 5 times.

Skills

  • Create landscaping plan for 2012.
  • Decide on my next woodworking project and plan it.

Spiritual

I have created a task for each of these goals to be on my list every day to keep me focused. I have had pretty good success so far this month with this method. Breaking things into small chunks is working for me.

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